Stories In A Star.

 When love hits you right in the face when you just simply weren't ready for it, what would you do? How would you feel? What would you say? If that happened to me, I don't think I would know exactly what to do, but then I realised I just had to be honest with the person. If I were you, I'd tell that person to give you some time, then only take action. If the feelings are returned, then good for the both of you. If the feelings aren't, then I hope you two will sort it out the right way. 

If that happened to me, I'd finally open up my heart, get ready to fall in love, and don't think of the consequences. I'll just go with the flow. I won't screw it up, as I screwed my first and last one up pretty badly. I think when you get your second lover, love somehow feels oh-so-differently. Maybe, just maybe, love just feels different with different people. I'm not exactly sure but it's just a hunch. 

But what I'm really sure of love, is that if you've screwed up your first relationship, and when you get into a second relationship, you'd know what to do. You'd be more sure of yourself. You wouldn't do anything stupid that might make you screw things up again.

A word or two for those singles out there who are still deeply hurt from their previous lover:

Don't worry about it. I know it is a big deal when it comes to getting hurt in love. But seriously, after all he/she's done to you; do you really think it's worth it to get all emo and cry over it? I know it's really hard, but try? For the sake of yourself. Where is your dignity? Shame on you. I know I'm being harsh, but believe me, being harsh to you is the only way you're ever gonna get over him/her. Try your hardest to not think so much about him/her. Whatever they do to you, whether is backstabbing you or bitching about you right at your face, I just want you to walk on and never look back. Because seriously, who do they think they are? They already screwed up your life once, and now they're trying to do it again. I want you to ask say this whenever you're hesitant about this matter, ''Why should I care? Let them do whatever the hell they want with me. The more they bitch about me, the more I know they're just weak assholes. Weak assholes who will never get over me. They're just so pathetic, that it's just lame. They only want to draw attention to themselves. Or in other words, they're attention seekers.''

So promise me this, you will get over him, whether you like it or not. You know why? Because they don't deserve to be in your life anymore. They're just trash. You're just simply too awesome to even think about them anymore. You've friends all around you, friends that will be there for you, whenever you need them, and vice-versa. Those are called true friends. And I want you to always remember to appreciate them, just like how you would appreciate yourself.

Written with ♥,  

Rafael.